Feeling Lonely In A Metropolis

Studying abroad made me realize I don’t want to live in my hometown

Julia Appa
6 min readAug 17, 2020
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A lot of people are fascinated with big cities like Berlin, London, New York, or Los Angeles and consider moving there even though they don’t know a single soul. On top of that, rent is hardly ever affordable.

Despite these disadvantages, there is a variety of reasons why big cities continue to attract masses of people.

Why megacities and metropolises lure you in

Generally, megacities are seen as fun, interesting and exciting. They offer a lot of working opportunities, sometimes even in international companies. That can be an incredibly important aspect for individuals who are looking to kick start their career and work abroad later on in their lives.

I’ve met some people in Hamburg who grew up in small villages that just didn’t have anything to offer. They left in an attempt to get rid of the boredom that they have experienced during their teenage lives and felt an urge to live a life that was unlike their parents’ because it didn’t seem desirable to them. They wanted to evolve and feel a sense of accomplishment.

“Life was just boring, you know. So I left.”

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Julia Appa

Just a 23-year-old who’s obsessed with writing. Instagram: juliaminus_romeo